I have been doing some self-reflection lately and I think I need to do some re-affirmation and record what I have learned so far...
- The thing about being a parent is that you will need to forget that you are tired or sick or busy. Children don't get them. When you are with your children, give them your full attention. They just want their time with you. If you need to cry, do it after they are asleep...
- When you are angry, it is only wise for you to be quiet. Otherwise you will hurt yourself and people around you more than you think you could.
- You can really judge if someone really loves you and respect you or not by his action when he is angry with you. If he doesn't give a shit about you when he is angry, it means that he doesn't love or respect you enough...
- He doesn't love you or respect you enough if he still smokes around you when he very well knows how you feel about people smoking... especially around (your) kids!
- You can only stand and respect someone that much, but it takes great patience and great strength to be able to hang in there even though you know you are going to erupt anytime.
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